Elopements and Micro Weddings
The word “elopement” once evoked images of ladder-climbing Romeo, lovestruck Juliets, and midnight escapes, with couples rushing to wed against their families’ wishes. While these romantic tales have their place in history, today’s elopements tell a very different story. Modern couples are choosing intimate ceremonies not out of secrecy or necessity, but as a thoughtful, intentional way to celebrate their love. Perhaps it’s time for a new term altogether – one that better captures the intentional intimacy of these small-scale celebrations.
Traditional large weddings have long served as gathering points for extended families and communities. They create spaces for multiple generations to connect, for old friends to reunite, and for two families to truly blend together through shared celebration. These grand celebrations can be magical, creating memories that ripple through family stories for years to come. We here at Barn Lights love large weddings!
Yet couples today are increasingly drawn to what we call “intentional intimacy” – ceremonies that prioritize meaningful moments over large guest lists. Rather than spending mere minutes with each of 200+ guests, couples can share unhurried conversations and heartfelt moments with their innermost circle of loved ones. These celebrations can have all the elegance of a traditional wedding while transforming the experience from a whirlwind of social obligations into an intimate gathering where every moment carries more weight.
At Barn Lights, we’ve crafted our micro-wedding package specifically for couples seeking this intimate experience. Our on-site catering team, led by our dedicated chef, creates dining experiences that feel like private dinner parties. Our extensive decor library eliminates the stress of sourcing and coordinating with multiple vendors, while our experienced wedding coordinators ensure every detail aligns with your vision. From the moment you arrive until your final farewell, our team handles all the logistics, allowing you and your chosen few to remain fully immersed in the celebration.
A micro-wedding and elopement celebration can also have a more affordable budget, yet we don’t think of them as “low budget” – we think of them as intimate celebrations!
